Elaine was born on December 21, 1935, in Simpson County, Mississippi, to parents Joe Henry and Bernadine McDaniel. She was a graduate of Mississippi School for the Deaf in Jackson, MS. She was a member of First Baptist Church in Mendenhall. She had married her sweetheart, Coach Marshall Don Deer, on December 13, 1958. Elaine was a devoted wife and homemaker.
Visitation and services were held on Monday, January 13, 2025, at 11 a.m. at Colonial Chapel Funeral Home in Mendenhall. Colonial Chapel Funeral Home of Mendenhall is in charge of arrangements, (601) 849-5032.